“What Do We Do?”: Indoctrination Inoculation
Practice Questianity. Especially when someone appears to have confidence in their position as the "right" one to have. Be Culturally...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Nov 5, 20231 min read
Safety First… Forever: The Six C's of Safety
I don't know about you, but I am excellent at intellectualizing what I have learned in therapy and sharing it with to whoever will...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Aug 7, 20231 min read
What Can You Do Right Now?! Make it About Race
"What is something we can do right now?" The answer isn't sexy like a protest, or a march, it's making everything about race. Aht! Aht!...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Aug 7, 20233 min read
Who/What is a BIPOC?! Cuz it ain't Me
We gotta cut it out with the acronyms, yall. I know that sounds silly coming from me, but hear me out. or- read me out... whatever. YOU...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Jun 20, 20232 min read
Atoneteenth: Yom Kippur for White People.
Good Rule of Thumb: If you do not discuss slavery, you should not discuss Juneteenth. But for my unmelanated friends that want to honor...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Jun 10, 20232 min read
Influencers, Creators, and Late-stage Capitalism... who is influencing who?!
Under the current model, Creators on TikTok can only make a living if we're also full-time "Influencers". "Influencing" is getting paid...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Aug 27, 20229 min read
Transcript of White Fragility Podcast
Why White Fragility is not antiracism
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Jul 13, 20222 min read
Stop reacting to tears.
We need to stop reacting to tears. Let’s start treating them as sweat droplets coming from eyeballs, and just know that some of us are...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Jul 8, 20221 min read
As Seen On WWW TikTok!
book recommendations and other fun stuff you may have seen on White Woman Whisperer's TikTok
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Jun 23, 20221 min read
‘White Noise’ Red Flags - OAF
White noise red flags are phrases that immediately trigger my brain to save power and disregard the rest of the message. These phrases...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
May 30, 20222 min read
My Cult-like Cult Obsession and Why You Should Join Me…
I did not choose my cult obsession. The cult obsession chose me. Ever since I first viewed Leah Remini’s docu-series, ‘Scientology and...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
May 21, 20225 min read
Caption-gate
There is a pattern I noticed on TikTok and the icky feeling I got let me know that it was indicative of a deeper issue in our social...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Dec 17, 20211 min read
Don't Double Down!
So you’ve found yourself in a position where something you said on the internet is not being received as you intended. You didn't think...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Dec 14, 20211 min read
Cues of a Performative Ally
Have you... learned about the racial climate and now listen to Black people in order to act accordingly? asked for what to say when you...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Dec 13, 20211 min read
Watch Your Language: Centered or Constructive? (1-D vs 3-D)
Before you speak… Is what you're saying going to include any perspective other than your own? I have found a strong theme in my TikTok...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Dec 13, 20211 min read
Race = Periods
Talking about race is like talking about periods. These are literally basic elements of humanness, and we are receiving constant messages...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Nov 23, 20212 min read
My first hard ‘-er’
_____ It’s 2011-ish, and it’s my last day working part-time at a tanning salon in Kenilworth, NJ (I know, I was so cute and naive) and I...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Nov 16, 20211 min read
Help me, Help you... on to step 2
I have come to the point in my journey where I need to slow down in order to speed up. From now on, I will be focusing on writing and...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Nov 15, 20211 min read
Stop, Drop, and Scroll
I've seen many people joke about feeling duped because they thought that ‘Stop, Drop and Roll’ would be more relevant in their lives,...
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The White Woman Whisperer _
Nov 15, 20211 min read
W.A.I.T.
Why am I talking? I heard this acronym at some point in corporate America and it really stuck with me. I love it for many reasons. It...
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